5/31/2004 02:50:24 PM|||Amy|||It's hard to tell in some places on the chat logs if he really means the things he's told this woman, or if he is just saying these things to perpetuate further the image he's developing of the wronged and hurt husband. For example, he told her the story of how I found the emails (the same way, incidentally, that I found the chat logs) of the women he was seeing when I was pregnant with Monkey. He said I misunderstood the content and wrote hateful messages full of expletives to the women in question (there were two.) What I did, and I actually copied him on the emails so that he would be very well aware, was to say something to the effect of:

Dear...,

You don't know me, and we have never met, but I am John (Irish John) Haughey's wife. I found this email by accident this evening, and just thought you should know his situation before you continue with whatever relationship is developing between the two of you.

We have a three year old son, and I am six months pregnant with our second child.

blah, blah, blah

It really was like that. I wasn't looking to offend, or get a sympathy vote, but I really wanted them to know with what they were dealing. I am not the sort of person to say anything like, "get your whorehands off my husband." If I were, I think it would be more apparent here/

There's more. He also told her that Winston drove us further apart, that I hated him for getting me pregnant again. I have always regarded Winston as a miracle. When I told him that I was pregnant, he had a look of disgust on his face and he turned and walked away from me. I know he loves her. She's impossible to not love, but the things he has said to this woman were about him, not me.|||108603371134887447|||Miscommunication